The mutual promise of two people to marry, is called an engagement. With an engagement, the couple testifies to their desire to marry. It does not matter whether the partners are the same. The ritual of proposing is an ancient tradition that has been practised for several hundred years. In the past, it was common for the future husband to negotiate the terms of marriage with the bride’s father. If both agreed, the groom handed over the so-called marriage dowry to the bride’s father in ancient Germania (until around 300 BC) – a kind of down payment. This was considered an official engagement. Later the reverse exchange of goods became common, the bride and her family brought in the marriage dowry.
Preparing for an engagement ceremony involves thoughtful planning to ensure the day runs smoothly and feels memorable for everyone involved. Start by deciding on the venue and guest list, keeping in mind whether you’d like an intimate gathering or a larger celebration. Once that’s set, coordinate the outfits, jewelry, and any cultural or traditional items that might be part of the rituals. It’s also helpful to plan the décor, theme, and seating arrangements in advance to create a warm and welcoming atmosphere. Don’t forget to arrange for photography or videography to capture the special moments. On a personal level, both families should communicate clearly about the schedule, traditions, and expectations for the ceremony. Preparing small speeches or toasts, organizing the exchange of rings or gifts, and arranging refreshments or catering will add to the day’s smooth flow.
