Direct cremation/burial does not stop you from having a farewell ceremony – a funeral – if you wish, after the event. If you choose direct cremation you can hold a memorial event of your own devising, with if you wish, the ashes present. The ceremony may conclude with the scattering of ashes perhaps as the sun sets or rises at a favourite place. Whichever you choose you can have a memorial service whenever you feel the time is right.