These people would do anything for them from cooking to cleaning, and these kids grew up not having to lift a finger at all. Can you even imagine raising your kids to act this way?! Many moms would say that raising kids to pick up after themselves and have manners is super important, so it can be crazy to even think about this. When you become a mom, it’s heartbreaking to imagine your children being excluded by other kids at school. All you want is for them to have happy playdates and make really great friends.