Stop saying these sentences after you turn 40!

Why did this happen to me?  

Many of us humankind blame ourselves for the things that have fallen into our lives, but it is better to put everything into the hands of fate and take the pleasure of every moment of our life. Only if you can not digest a bitter bit of your life is it better to get help from a counselor. But in the end, realize that nothing happens without a reason, and there’s sure to be a guideline that you do not know.