A bridal shower is typically planned by the mother of the bride, the maid (or matron) of honor, the bridal party, or another close relative or friend of the bride. In all cases, whoever plans and hosts the event often pays for it. While the bride-to-be does not plan all of the logistics of her bridal shower, she may weigh in on the guest list, location, and any games and activities she does (or does not) want at her shower.
