Bob Menendez’s wife partied with Mob Wives and Real Housewives, then two-timed her attorney boyfriend to become the senator’s lover, The Post can reveal. And during their tumultuous courtship, the New Jersey Democrat sent Capitol Police officers to his love rival’s office to “bully him out of the picture,” a friend of the attorney — who represented R. Kelly during his sex-trafficking trial — told The Post. Nadine Arslanian Menendez is facing up to 45 years in prison, accused of conspiring with her husband to commit fraud, bribery and extortion by selling the power of his office to the Egyptian government and three businessmen in exchange for a convertible Mercedes, gold bars and cash he stashed in his jackets.