“They wanted to build their dream home, but the whole thing fell apart,” attorney Douglas Anton told The Post. He started dating Arslanian in 2011 and did some legal work for her. He also represented R. Kelly at the trial that ended with the star’s conviction for sex-trafficking. Kelly was jailed for 30 years. After the couple divorced in 2005, Arslanian struggled to raise daughter Sabine and son Andre. The children studied at the elite Lycée Français in Manhattan, where tuition tops $46,000 a year — and she would take them to a Union City IHOP on the commute.